i hate when nonadhd people are like “i love people with adhd <33” but they literally hate us when adhd isn’t a quirky personality trait, but actually neurodevelopmental disorder.
i’m sorry to disappoint you /s, but adhd isn’t just funny quirks and head in the clouds. it’s mentally debilitating and draining a lot of the time.
“i need adhd bf” i literally have a trauma of growing up with undiagnosed adhd so if you’re neurotypical and don’t get the experience i need you to shut up.
(if you’re neurodivergent yeaah i know… our neurodivergency make us extremely cool)
